Monday, October 27, 2014

Bridezilla Solutions For Perfect Destination Weddings

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By Young Lindsay


The history of the wedding celebration has spanned five thousand years. From wedding bands in 2,800 BC to diamond proposal rings in 1477 AD to the white wedding dress in 1499, more and more customizations to the nuptial ceremony has emerged. Saying I do is not as simple as making vows under a moonlit tree anymore.

Say farewell to the mainstream church matrimony. Say hello to the trend of destination weddings Mexico, with couples getting married at cliff edges, sunset ridden seasides, ski slopes in Alberta, Canada. Because destination weddings prove to be more work than the usual one, here are some things you should consider to lessen the stress.

Choosing the right location is the first factor you have to consider. It should be somewhere that reflects your passions and your character as a couple. Yet whether you want something beachy or rustic or whimsical, you should also consider travel time and expenses, especially if you are planning to travel abroad. Remember that the value of your currency fluctuates depending on your location, so calculate while you are ahead.

Make lots of time for planning. If the usual duration is one and a half year, book your reservation two years in advance. Consider sending your save the date cards as early as possible so that your working comrades can file their leave for your big day.

Get a wedding planner to take care of the logistics of your ceremony. Do not try hogging the whole work, you could possibly explode into the stereotypical bridezilla. Learn to say no to vendors who will not stop being so insistent on things that are out of your budget. And never forget to include your groom in the grand scheming. If you are going to be partners in life, you better start it now.

Know what kind of climate your wedding venue has, and be prepared if it is very hot or very cold. Do not torture your bridesmaids and groomsmen with clothing that is inappropriate for the temperature of the venue. Pick costumes that will suit the weather, because during weddings, you do not go with fashion over comfort if you want everyone, including yourself, to have a good time.

Keep calm by raking in a little downtime. Do not make your fairytale fantasies become some sort of apocalyptic emergency, because that would make you a very ugly, stressed bride. Instead, announce a recess and have some romantic alone time with your fiance. It would refresh and revitalize you and keep the eye bags at bay.

Be aware of the legal dos and do nots in the area. You are there to get married, not to get locked up or worse. You might be up for a civil wedding at home and a non binding ritual for your destination, so know the law to avoid nasty surprises. Check for the legal tidbits while you are still in your hometown, and make sure all the paperwork are done before you travel.

Finally, give your guests some tender love and care. Remember that this is like throwing a birthday bash, only this one happens very rarely. Appreciate that they might have undergone a lot of expenses and effort to be there in your big day. Hire a concierge by all means, and give them a welcome meal when they arrive.




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